Open Mic Nights for Dan
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Finding My Voice at Open Mic
I’ve always loved music. Back in junior high and high school, I was that kid in all the bands: I started on drums, played saxophone in the jazz band and played electric bass in the jazz choir. At home I spent my free time playing guitar. For a long time, performing was something I only enjoyed at home, playing for myself and my kids. Even when my sister gifted me a ukulele a few years ago, it remained a fun but private outlet.
But a few months ago, everything changed.
I started attending Open Mic nights at the Spiral Cafe—partly because I’m always looking for something to do with my son Erik on quiet winter Thursday nights while my wife and daughter are at swim practice. My hockey buddy Tim hosts the Open Mic nights and I found myself captivated by the atmosphere. Watching others take the stage, struggle, succeed, and share their passion sparked something in me. I realized, I think I’d like to do that, too.
Taking that leap was an interesting and (admittedly) scary feeling, but it was absolutely wonderful. I’ve now performed ten times. There are no rules, so I just play whatever songs I like. I particularly enjoy taking a recognizable song and making it my own. Sometimes I'll play on ukulele, sometimes I'll change the key and I even rewrite verses so that the song is more personal to me.
What makes it possible is the incredibly supportive community at the Spiral Cafe. It’s a place where you can be nervous, a little unsure of yourself, and still feel encouraged to do your best without judgement. The "house band" will chime in with very little direction, they are a collection of gifted musicians.
I’ve even had a few friends come out to watch, which, it turns out, isn't as nerve-wracking as I thought—it’s actually been a great experience. If you’ve ever thought about stepping up to a mic, I highly recommend it. Find your community, embrace the nerves, and just start playing.